Its adult things

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

There was a thing we have to keep n there was a thing that we need someone to listen to our emotionally imbalance thingy.. Twitter n Facebook are too open for us to share about personal life.. Blog? Hurmm who cares its mine...

Its difficult to begin, how things had done so far yet? There will be a period of ups n downs in this relationship, from the start i knew it will happen. Mak always said to me about the age matter since the time when abg decide to get engage with someone who was the same age as him.. Mak kata its difficult to have ur spouse who is about at the same age as u bcoz the level of maturity for both partner will be the same.. Bila si isteri cepat sgt merajuk or melenting about something, si suami kurang dpt tahan lame dgn keaadan mcm tu.. Dua2 lebih nak tunjuk yg dua2 had their own ego.. Same goes when suami marah or merajuk dgn isteri.. Tahap limit kesabaran si isteri utk pujuk suami tu jadi kurang.. Hurm.. Entah kenape.. Tiada jawapan utk soalan tu.. Mungkin dua2 egonye sama, degilnye sama2 naik, tahap kesabaran tu jadi kurang.

Bertolak ansur.. Tu je yg mak mampu nasihat.. Jgn telalu ikot kata hati.. Biar la kita terluka atau ape skali pon..bila da jadi isteri..suami x nak pujuk..xpe..pujuk diri sendiri..bila ade bende kita x puas hati..xpe..diamkan.. Sbab dia suami kita.. Dia syurga kita.. Hati kita yg terluka ni biar Allah yg ubatkan, bila kita x puas hati tapi x didengari, xpe biar Allah yg dgr semua ketidakpuashatian kita. Biar Allah yg tenangkan kita tapi tnggungjawab kita ialah utk tenang kan suami senang kan hidup dia kerana dia adalah SYURGA KITA.

But for now, aku masih blom mampu utk buat smua ape yg mak pesan.. Sbab mungkin blom tiba masenye dia layak utk aku hormati sebagai suami.. Hati memberontak bila terluka, minta dipujuk minta dibelai..tapi aku tahu hati dia pon same memberontak ingin dihormati ingin disenangi.. Maaf aku hanya manusia biasa yg hatinya mampu terluka mampu sakit bila dimarah disakiti.. Aku tidak sempurna seperti bidadari :')  Maaf utk itu.


Zierahanie

SWIFT

Mungkin sudah terlukis takdir,

Kita bertemu di sini,

Untuk kita berada di bawah satu nama

SWIFT

engkau satukan dua hati ini,

Yang sebelum ini masing2 mencari

tulang rusuk yg hilang.

Aku belajar erti kasih sayang rindu cinta dan kecewa di sini,

jatuh bangun dia aku nampak 

aku jadi saksi

Bila org mula menyoal

kenapa memilih dia dan tetap masih memilih dia walau 

berulang kali aku kecewa

aku sendiri tidak punya jawapan 

cuma yg pasti

hati aku kata dia

bukan sesiapa yg lain

tetapi tetap masih dia

HOZEFA ZAMIER

tetap nama yg sama

nama pertama buat hati ini terbuka

untuk terima seorang Adam dlm hidup ini

 selain ayah dan abg yg aku hormati.

Jodoh itu rahsia Allah,

harapan di setiap doa,

jika dia lelaki yg Engkau cipta

untuk menyempurnakan aku

melengkapkan ketidaksempurnaannya aku,

Engkau satukanlah hati kami

bila tiba waktunya nanti

cepat atau lambat

Engkau yg Maha Berkuasa

lebih mengetahui 

Amin Ya Rabb.

Time flies...

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

Its been long time since last im updating this blog..hehe.. i think not much story to be shared..all going smoothly n followed my way.. Alhamdulillah :) and what amazed me more was it has been six months already! ouh time flies so fast people.. If people ask me now what more i want in my life.. i said its enough :) i have it all, a very loving n understanding family, very great friends n a very adorable InsyaAllah i can say future imam ^^ enough for now.. Alhamdulillah Ya Rabb... Another one year... May Allah ease our way in this medschool life.. Final year... here we are.. Hope me n all my friends will pass thru this year round together with success n great achievement.. Aminn

Dr Hanani in the process ;) InsyaAllah 

my loving parents :)

my understanding n supporting families ^_^

my crazier n happening final year's groupmate >,<

my heart n soul, also my tulang belakang i guess :)

All this people play a greater role in my life :) follow me through my ups n downs.. yeah all this people knew me better.. inside out.. pls Allah protect them from any bad things.. i may not be there always to take care of them.. i just have my prayer for them.. May Allah bless these people that i love so much <3

lots of love,

zierahanie

Keep healthy people ;)

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

DO YOU KNOW?

Minum air dalam kadar yang cukup dapat menurunkan risiko serangan penyakit jantung. A six-year study published in the May 1, 2002 American Journal of Epidemiology found that those who drink more than 5 glasses of water a day were 41% less likely to die from a heart attack during the study period than those who drank less than two glasses. 

Please!please n please love your own life. 

God has given us the opportunity and borrow us with healthy life,

people are the one who ruin itself.

#notetomyself

lots of loves,

zierahanie :) 

Each n every disease can be cure, trust in Allah

Assalamualaikum...

*gambar hiasan* =p

Monday blues people! :) Tiba-tiba hari ni terfikir nak tulis pasal kesihatan sebab saya merupakan salah seorang medical student so rasa tanggungjawab tu tiba2 membuak-buak nak berkongsi pasal penyakit...hee..  *hiperbola di situ >_* Okay, firstly semua org telah ditanamkan dlm mindanya yg ubat setiap penyakit adalah dengan berjumpa doktor n makan ubat... NOOOO sgt la tidak betol ok.. walaupun saya seorang medical student and soon to be doctor, Insya Allah saya tidak akan sewenang-wenangnya memberitahu pesakit yg ubat adalah penawar kepada segala penyakit.. no i won't do that.. BUT i didn't say that you should stop from seeing doctor ( kalau camtu macam mana saya nak cari makan..hee *sambil garu kepala* ) Sebagai bukti dalam Al-Quran sendiri ada beritahu:

Firman Allah SWT,

" Dan Kami turunkan beransur-ansur dari Al-Quran Ayat-ayat Suci yang menjadi ubat penawar dan rahmat bagi orang-orang yang beriman kepadanya; dan (sebaliknya) Al-Quran tidak menambahkan orang-orang yang zalim (disebabkan keingkaran mereka) melainkan kerugian jua. (Al-Israa' 17:82)

Daripada Jabir bin Abdullah dari Nabi s.a.w sabdanya:

“Tiap-tiap penyakit itu(ada) ubatnya. Apabila menepati ubat terhadap penyakit tersebut, maka sembuhlah dengan izin Allah”

(Riwayat Muslim dan Ahmad)

Rasulullah s.a.w telah bersabda yang maksudnya: “Bahawasanya Allah telah menurunkan penyakit dan ubat dan dijadikan kepada setiap penyakit ada ubatnya, berubatlah tetapi jangan berubat dengan benda-benda yang haram”.

So believe in Allah :) the most Powerful Creator.. He create every problems and His the One will provide the answer to each problem.

Marriages

Assalamualaikum... 

Happy Thursday! :) nothing much to say just want to shared something i found n read.. we can keep it for our future ahead as for me im not married yet..but its not wrong to have some knowledge about it aite ^^

Marriage is not just about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. Its not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.

Be gentle, be romantic, show attention, show affection, kiss, touch, ..., 

to be a Muslim doesn't mean that you are not a human with all needs and feelings... ;)

My Sister's......

Find a Husband who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of everyone, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you as a wife ...The one who turns everyone and says, 'that's my only love...'

and who always always love you for the sake of ALLAH

The day you marry your wife, is the day Allah places a trust and responsibility on you to give her the rights as a wife and she becomes your family, your comforter, the mother of your children.......so fear Allah in regards to your duties as a husband

O dear sister, When you marry your husband you leave your birth home and you become a real woman. your husband becomes your family,your maintainer 

and protector, the father of children, your friend and lover so treat him well and follow him to the ends of the earth.....fear Allah in regards to how you treat him.

Marriage in Islam completes half of your Deen. Do not be swayed by good looks or money as these will come and go. Marry a man who Truly fears and loves Allah. Who puts Islam 1st before anything Learn and walk in Deen together Go in a marriage with the purpose in getting closer to Allah and InshaAllah it will be a blessed marriage InshaAllah :)

REMEMBER brothers and sisters! 

• Dear brothers, you can never get the perfect wife you have always dreamed of
• Dear sisters, forget about the perfect husband you have always dreamed of
• Dear brothers and sisters, 
  
  Overlook the shortcomings of your spouse and fulfill your duties as an "ideal Muslim husband and wife".

It is not about perfect person, but about who makes your life perfect.....

BUT!! MOST IMPORTANTLY!!

When you put your hope for love, praise, success, happiness, and recognition in the people, you will walk away disappointed with a broken heart. It is only when you put this hope in Allah will your heart and soul find peace, relief, and pleasure. Indeed Allah speaks the truth in the Quran: "Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest. (13:28)"

Lots of love,

zierahanie :)

Kelebihan seorang KIDAL! check it out! ;)

Assalamualaikum.. Selamat malam cikgu ! Haha.. Tetiba je meniru gaya ketua kelas Upin dan Ipin. Well well west.. Malam yang indah datang lagi.. Aktiviti aku hari ni teman abg kesayangan yg demam sorang tu makan... tapi xpe sanggup! sbab xperlu keluarkan duit sendiri..hihi.. okeyh berbalik kepada tajuk...Erm entri ni tentang kelebihan seorang kidal. Mesti ada punya di antara korang yang dok terpacak depan skrin tu yang kidal kan.. Ecehhh.. Aku pon salah seorang dari itu woo.. Ya.. Aku seorang yang kidal dan aku amat berbangga menjadi seorang yang kidal. Sebab.. Kidal itu menawan serta cute.. Complete set tuh.. Haha.. =p

Bila bercakap tentang kelebihan kidal ni kan ada beberapa perkara yang aku suka sangat tentang menjadi kidal.. iaitu..

• Secara kajian umum, golongan kidal ni lebih pandai, lebih teror dan lebih kacak or cun berbanding golongan kanan. Ni bukan aku yang cakap okeh, tapi kajian dah dibuat. So.. Aku terasa ada betulnya kot.. Hehe.. lolololll =pp

• Golongan kidal jugak lebih sesuai dijadikan calon isteri / suami . Sebab? Berdasarkan kajian yang aku pernah terbaca, golongan ni akan sedaya upaya mempertahankan hubungan dan menjaga hubungan itu sekuat kuatnya.. Kira macam calon suami / isteri mithali gitu.. Haaa.. Ada betulnya gak tu.. klu di tolak tambah campur darab dan bahagi dah LAPAN tahun tu ==> aku knal dia... Hehe.. kira record gak la kan (tapi tu plus ngan waktu berehat kami..=p)

• Romantik? Member aku yang sama kidal dengan aku pernah cakap " kita beruntung kidal, sebab kita lebih romantik dari golongan bertangan kanan.. " . Errr.. Aku tatau nak sokong ke tak, tapi kalau ditengok member aku tu serius dia tu romantik ! Haha..  Aku? Tak kot.. lalala.. 

• Berdasarkan kajian yang aku baca jugak, jika suami isteri tu dua dua kidal, peratus anak dia pon akan kidal jugak agak tinggi . Dan boleh dikatakan pasangan dua dua kidal amat jarang ditemui didunia.  Hoho... Kira macam "rare" woo.. Cool 

• Golongan kidal jugak sangat la kreatif.. Ni bukan aku cakap ye.. ni berdasarkan kajian yang aku baca.. Tapi ada betul nya gak, beberapa designer hebat yang aku kenal, memang kidal ! =)

• Golongan kidal ni dikatakan amat rapat  dan amat pentingkan family ! Err.. Yang ni aku sokong ! Haha..

Well.. Menjadi seorang yang kidal amat lah unik okeh.. Walaupun kekadang orang cakap guna tangan kiri ni macam kotor. Sebab tangan tu guna basuh poopoo, tangan tu gak la guna untuk benda lain. Haha.. Dah nak buat camne? Dah sejak azali gitu. Tak leh ubah! So.. Pada yang kidal tu, berbangga lah ye.. Aku pun kidal jugak.. Aku bangga ! Hehe..



Lots of loves,
-zierahanie-